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Таня Шелковская posted an update 1 week, 4 days ago
When I first thought about trying the dating site sofiadate.com/type-dating, I thought it was just a way to while away an evening, escape the routine, and fill the silence with lighthearted conversation. But I never expected that this simple idea would lead me to emotions I’d long since forgotten. Now, looking back, I understand: sometimes the most meaningful encounters come not when you’re looking for them, but when you simply allow yourself to be open to the world.
The first thing that surprised me about dating was the sincerity of people. When they write, they can’t hide behind gestures or the occasional smile. All that remains are words. And it’s in these words that true depth, humanity, and attention to detail suddenly reveal themselves. You begin to feel a person not through their appearance, but through how they think, how they react, how they choose their words. It’s a wonderful, almost intimate process to get to know someone through text messages.
That’s how I met him. His first message wasn’t original or pretentious. On the contrary, it was simple, calm, yet somehow unexpectedly warm: “Good evening. How are you?” For some reason, that short phrase immediately made me smile. There was something very sincere about it, something that immediately set him apart.
We started texting, and with each passing day, our conversations deepened. He wasn’t afraid to be frank, sharing thoughts that people usually keep hidden at first. And most importantly, he knew how to listen. Not just respond, but really listen, feel between the lines, notice emotions I didn’t express directly. His support was so unobtrusive and natural that I sometimes caught myself thinking I hadn’t felt so understood in a long time.
The more we talked, the more I felt something real was growing between us. Something that couldn’t be faked. A tenderness that emerges from small details: from him asking how my day was; from him remembering my favorite things; from him rejoicing at my successes, even the smallest ones.
When the time came to meet, I was more nervous than I had been in a long time. I wanted reality not to ruin the fragile and beautiful thing we had created online. But the moment I saw him, all doubts disappeared. His gaze was as warm as his messages. His smile was the very one I had imagined. And the most amazing thing was that when he was around, I felt the same sense of calm I’d felt in our messages.
We walked around the city, stopping by lampposts, talking about dreams, plans, memories. Everything was amazingly natural. It felt as if we weren’t meeting for the first time, but simply continuing a dialogue that had been going on for a long time. Every minute seemed filled with light.
Since then, I’ve realized one simple thing: dating isn’t a collection of profiles or a game of matches. It’s a space that helps people meet with their hearts before their eyes. It’s a chance to hear another person’s soul before seeing their face.
If it weren’t for dating, we would never have crossed paths. We would never have known how amazingly compatible we were. And I’m grateful to this platform for giving me a meeting that has become an important part of my life.
Now I know for sure: love can come from anywhere—even through a screen. The main thing is to let it in.
